Male Fantasies, The Cheap Slut

Male Fantasies

This particular fantasy starts when you are an adolescent and even if you only have a brief flirtation with it the thought of a girl who lets you fuck her at the drop of a hat is very appealing. Whether it’s a hand job, blow job, vaginal or anal sex the mythical girl who will do anything if you smile at her in the right way is rare in reality but the theme of many masturbation fantasies.

The sort of female this fantasy revolves around is the sort of girl you wouldn’t want to take home to meet the parents and not the sort you want a long term relationship with. It therefore follows that the sluttiest slut who populates the purest form of this fantasy is worthy of your sexual attentions but not worthy of you outside the bedroom and therefore represents one of the meanest forms of female objectification.

Fantasies are rarely pure each man having his own variant and far more common is the “slightly slutty” girl, especially one who seems innocent but has a twinkle in her eye that tells you she’s depraved in the bedroom.

The emotional detachment that an encounter with such a partner requires means that this particular fantasy stands apart from most others. If you re-enact it with your partner and let her be the cheap and slutty girl who wants you to use her and never call her again you have to put aside your relationship totally. To play this one out to its fullest extent and with the realism that gives imagined casual sex with a stranger its edge you have to forget everything you know about them and the memories of your relationship. That’s the only way it can work and deliver the full satisfaction that the imaginary version of this fantasy has.

For that reason more than any other this fantasy in its pure form is one of the hardest to role-play in the bedroom. Get it right and it can be exciting. Get it wrong and the sex can be one-sided and only fulfilling for half of the partnership.  Slightly slutty is therefore much easier to pull off and much more appealing to female partners who in most cases far from feeling that a short skirt and vivid makeup in the bedroom objectifies them feel empowered by the reaction a provocatively sexual version of themselves has on their partner.

In reality easy lays be they male or female are rarely a long-term option. Most people crave more than the undoubted thrill of a different partner in their bed every night. The ecstatic peaks of orgasm cannot be maintained all day and humans tend to desire the long term companionship that is completely incompatible with multiple sexual partners.

Of course that doesn’t mean that sex in a long term relationship has to be ordinary or disappointing. Getting to know your partner’s body intimately can be far more gratifying than any one night stand.