Male Fantasies, MILFs And All That

Male Fantasies MILFS And All That

The term MILF and Cougar are in some ways interchangeable. In male fantasies a MILF may seek out younger men and therefore be a Cougar and of course if you are a Cougar then there’s no reason that you aren’t a MILF too. However they are subtly different as I see it.

Whereas a Cougar is displaying her sexuality overtly and seeks out a younger mate that isn’t necessarily so for a MILF as they are primarily the object of desire rather than the instigator of any coupling. While that might sound like a peculiar distinction to make it is important because being the object of someone’s desire does not mean you have to be aware of that desire, or willing to reciprocate in any way.

One of the classic on-screen MILFs is Mrs Robinson played in the 1967 film “The Graduate” by Anne Bancroft. The theme was brought right up to date in the 1999 film American Pie when Jennifer Coolidge played “Stifler’s Mom”, the very willing partner to coupling with one of her son’s schoolmates. Remember the music in the background  on that occasion in the pool room? It was “Mrs Robinson” could it have been anything else. In both cases these MILFs were cougars and I suppose that’s why in the public consciousness it’s difficult to differentiate the two terms. But I’m tenacious and I’m sticking with this one.

There are MILFs all over the world, desired by young men, especially in their teenage years when their hormones have a firm hold on their sexually eager personalities. I say young men, of course that doesn’t mean the more adventurous and sexually bi-curious women out there don’t fantasise about MILFs too but I will try and stick to things I can speak with knowledge about rather than drift off into another fantasy … the young lesbian and the MILF mmmm.

In real life relationships between partners of significantly differing ages are not the norm, so why for some people is there such a desire to seek out MILF porn. I think a lot of it has to do with recapturing youth and being “Shown the ropes” by an older woman who is both sexual, horny and knows how to look after a guy in all senses of that phrase. The flip side to that is that most “MILFs” who are featured in porn are not mothers and are not actually significantly older than the partners they are screwing.

Tanya Tate

Take the two ladies featured in the embedded pictures; Tanya Tate and Jordan Kingsley definitely don’t have kids and look nothing like my mom LOL. Then again the School Girls in Gazzman’s Young Harlots series of films from Harmony aren’t real school girls now are they.

Fantasy is about the suspension of disbelief and boys lusting after a womanly woman rather than a late teenage contemporary contemporaries is hardly the kinkiest of kinks. On contrary rather health I’d say.